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Bigger Thomas and Bessie’s Romantic Relationship

Native Son

Bigger Thomas and Bessie’s Romantic Relationship is marked by a sharp divide between Bigger’s imagined private life with Bessie and the coercive violence that ultimately determines her fate. Bessie is his girlfriend and a recurring presence in his thoughts, but the available scenes offer little evidence of mutual intimacy: they show Bigger imagining her as part of a life he wants, then meeting her unexpectedly while he is with Mary Dalton and Jan Erlone. The relationship’s ending makes that imbalance consequential rather than merely personal, as Bigger sexually assaults and later kills Bessie.

Identity and the Relationship’s Limits

Bessie is Bigger’s girlfriend, but the evidence does not develop their partnership through extended conversation or shared plans. Instead, it presents the relationship from a narrow, telling angle: Bigger thinks about her when she is absent, and the brief public encounter catches them in company with other people. Those glimpses establish an attachment in his life without demonstrating that he understands it as a reciprocal commitment. The distinction matters because his thoughts repeatedly place Bessie within the private future he imagines for himself, while the account of his conduct toward women identifies aggression and violence as part of his sexuality.

A Private Life Bigger Imagines

After beginning work in the Dalton household, Bigger examines the basement room assigned to him. Its softness and privacy prompt him to imagine bringing Bessie there some night. He also pictures drinking without having to hide and no longer sharing cramped sleeping space with Buddy. The room represents a material change in his circumstances: for once, he has a place of his own, and he imagines Bessie as someone who might share that new independence. His thought is therefore about more than a visit. It attaches their relationship to privacy, comfort, and a life less governed by the limitations of the home he has left behind.

That anticipation remains entangled with his pursuit of an easier life. Bigger plans to learn the routines of his new job before bringing Bessie to the room, and he takes pleasure in the prospect of acquiring new possessions. Bessie appears within these hopes as part of the future he expects his employment to make possible. The scene does not show him discussing those plans with her or asking what she wants; it records his private projection. That gap between imagining a shared life and establishing a shared understanding is important to the relationship’s characterization.

Desire and Public Encounter

Elsewhere, amid sexualized conversation with Jack, Bigger thinks of Bessie and wishes she were present. The remark places her within his desire, but the surrounding exchange is boastful rather than tender: the focus is on male arousal and performance. Bessie is invoked as the absent partner Bigger wants in that moment, not as a participant whose perspective the scene makes available. Together with his fantasy about the basement room, this episode shows how often the narrative presents their relationship through Bigger’s wants.

Their brief meeting in public offers a different kind of evidence. While music plays from an automatic phonograph, Bessie approaches Bigger, laughing, and greets him. He answers gruffly. When she notices Mary and Jan with him, she apologizes for interrupting and walks away, keeping her eyes on the two white companions. Mary invites Bessie to come over, but this moment provides no further account of Bessie’s response or of what follows between them. The contrast is still revealing: Bigger had imagined bringing Bessie into his private room, yet when she encounters him in company, the exchange is abrupt and she withdraws. The scene does not explain her feelings, and it cannot establish why Bigger responds gruffly; it preserves the distance between his private thoughts and their limited on-page interaction.

Violence and the Relationship’s Outcome

The relationship ends in violence. The novel’s account identifies Bessie as Bigger’s girlfriend and states that he sexually assaults her before killing her. It also connects his treatment of women to a harsh upbringing that has left his sexuality entangled with aggression. This context does not excuse his actions; it clarifies the pattern the narrative attributes to him. His earlier wish to have Bessie near him and his later violence belong to the same relationship, but they cannot be treated as equivalent expressions of affection. The outcome exposes the danger in Bigger’s possessive, desire-centered view of intimacy and makes Bessie’s vulnerability central to the relationship’s significance.

Narrative Significance

Bessie’s role in the relationship is defined partly by how little the available scenes let her speak for herself. She appears as the girlfriend Bigger remembers, desires, and imagines bringing into his new room; in their public encounter, she greets him, recognizes his company, and moves away. The narrative’s account of the ending then places her not within a shared romantic resolution but among the people harmed by Bigger’s violence. This contrast resists turning the relationship into a conventional love story: private longing does not become mutual commitment, and the promise of a more comfortable life gives way to coercion and death. The relationship therefore reveals both Bigger’s desire for a life beyond deprivation and the destructive form that desire takes when Bessie’s autonomy is subordinated to his wants.